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Considering polyamory

Whether you’re considering it or your partner has asked you about it, here are the entries we have for folks considering polyamory for themselves or their current relationships — both the good and the bad scenarios.

Not satisfied with secondary

Not too long ago I met my ideal man, but he has a girlfriend I know he loves very much. But as of our second meet he told me she is asexual and they are trying for a "open" relationship because of his personal need for intimacy and

The definition of love

So I’m monogamous one hundred percent I want no one else but my man, he thinks monogamy is not natural, and sex is sex and primal and you can be in a relationship with one person and fuck someone else and that’s ok. Well to me it is

Episode 54: Sacrificing Too Much

When you're trying your best with polyamory but it feels like if you don't get it right, you may get divorced. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Should you sacrifice for your relationship? What is worth sacrificing? Listen

Lapsed desire

When my wife and I first started seeing each other, our sex life was great. It was new and exciting, if not slightly more subdued than to what I was normally accustomed. After we moved in together, it seemed like our sex life became far less active than before, and

With or without permission

Me and my wife we both know each other from 2015 and in September 2019 we got married. Now she’s in Canada and for her studies and I’m in India waiting for this pandemic to be over so that I’ll be able to be with her. Well

Episode 50: What is Love?

What happens when your partner keeps hinting that they want monogamy but you're not even sure if you've ever felt love at all? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If you were to get a job offer in

When your partner isn’t satisfied

CW: This week’s column discusses mentions of weight loss. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now and over the last year I've put on some weight, I've always been a little chunky but now it’s become a real issue

Polyamory as a last chance

My marriage of 13 years is about to end due to my wife’s infidelity. She cheated in 2010 and this past summer in the wake of my brother’s suicide she dove into an emotional affair with a long-time friend of both of us. This experience has fractured numerous

Episode 43: What If It Ends?

What happens when our biggest fear is losing our current relationship? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: In your worst fears, what might your colleagues at work be criticising you for behind your back? Listen below. You can also find the podcast

Do gay men have to be non-monogamous?

I’m a gay man (24) and I’ve never been in a serious relationship, and right away I can anticipate that the advice might be I don’t know what I want yet. But I feel really strongly that I do. I’ve thought about this since I started