Disclosing Deeper Feelings
You may feel like you always have to disclose when you develop feelings for someone, but this may not actually be the case.
Topic
Responsibility and metamours
What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.
Episode 126: Living With Partners
Living with people is already hard but living with a new partner and a metamour you don’t have a connection with can add to the challenge.
Episode 124: Reasonable Boundaries
Knowing what boundaries are “reasonable” and which aren’t can be complicated in polyamory, especially when difficult feelings are involved.
Constant Comparisons
When you can't stop comparing yourself against your metamour and are worried about your partner's identity affecting your relationship.
Episode 118: Don't Ask, Don't Tell
When you agree to a DADT relationship with a closeted partner but it’s not moving fast enough into a more polyamorous relationship.
Episode 117: Metamour Management
Sometimes knowing way too much about your partner’s relationship with their metamour can seriously impact your relationship.
Episode 113: Slowly Losing Time
You’re slowly and slowly losing the time you have with a metamour and you’re not quite sure how to navigate their boundaries around their time.
Requests vs. demands
There is a difference between a partner making a request and a demand and you should care less about what polyam influencers think of your agreements.
Episode 111: Friends Without Benefits
A friends with benefits situation that seems like it might go into something more because your FWB complains about their partner may seem ideal but it’s actually not.
Accidental disclosure
Agreeing to things you don't actually want quite often creates a lot more problems than it needs to down the line.