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Responsibility and metamours

What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.

Knowing too much

I am a 40 year old solo poly[am] woman in a relationship with a poly man who is in a long term nesting relationship with his common-law wife. They have been together over 25 years; I’ve been with him for just over 3. I’ve heard you tell

Episode 53: Forgiving Mistakes

You have a metamour who thinks someone you're dating is a bad person. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic: What do you think about forgiveness? When should one be forgiven? Listen to Episode 53. You can

Possessive metamour

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years but have been in a BDSM dynamic for four years, we have always had an open BDSM dynamic due to not always having the same kinks but we opened up our relationship sexually a year ago. In that time

Feeling left out and alone

I’m married to a man named Brice and have been for 5 years, together for 11. We have a 2.5 year old child together and we were planning on having more. He’s British and I’m American. I’ve always identified as bisexual and non-monogamous but my

Episode 35: Primary Responsibility

Do titles matter when it comes to prioritising your time? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-35---Primary-Responsibility-e1cgbf3 Thank you to Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com

Episode 33: Stuck in the Middle

What happens when you feel stuck in the middle of your partner and their metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic: What should a healthy relationship provide for the people who are in it? Listen to Episode 33. You can also find

Episode 28: Unhealthy or Incompatible

What do you do if your partner wants no restrictions but you need reassurance that what you have means something? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What do you think of public displays of affection (PDA)? Listen below. You can also find

Metamour makes all the rules

My partner J and I have been dating almost a year, though due to our schedules/long distance we only hang out 1–2 weekends on average a month. We call and text often. We tell each other we love each other. J has a long-term (several years) nesting partner,

Energy for everyone but you

What I’m struggling with is that my partner has very little energy and is anti-social with PTSD attached. Because of this, I am the primary caretaker of our daughter and I also tend my partners daily needs. I become insecure when my partner manages to muster the energy to

Episode 23: Abusive Metamours

What happens when you feel pressured to associate with an abusive metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. We’re also introducing discussion topics this week. 💡Discussion Topic: What slightly unhealthy things feel attractive in a partner? How might this relate to your relationships