Disliking metamour boundaries
Your partner's girlfriend won't let you meet his friends. Is this boundary fair, or a sign of deeper control issues in polyamorous relationships?
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Responsibility and metamours
What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.
Episode 93: Meeting Metamours
Sometimes people are jerks, but experiences teach us when to engage or step away. Explore metamour dynamics on Non-Monogamy Help.
Being a middleman
You're the bridge between your partner and his other partner. Now she's developed feelings for you too. Navigating this feels complicated.
Privacy boundaries
You've asked for privacy boundaries, but your partner won't enforce them with his wife. When does his refusal to protect your relationship become a dealbreaker?
Episode 88: One Rule to Rule Them All
Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem it's designed to prevent. Explore this paradox on Non-Monogamy Help Episode 88.
Episode 87: Showering Rules
When having strict rules makes you feel controlled, coming to a compromise with a partner who wants a specific thing can seem impossible.
Left out of a thruple
Your husband's new relationship is leaving you out. After 10 years together, can you find your place in a thruple that wasn't designed for you?
Episode 83: Recycled Dates
Navigating non-monogamy: Your partner wants to recycle dates from past relationships, but you want experiences to feel fresh and new together.
Changing agreements
You agreed on boundaries for opening up, but your partner changed the rules without telling you. How do you move forward when trust is broken?
Episode 82: Dating Metamours
Your partner is dating someone you're also dating, but you never agreed to be a triad. Now everyone's acting like you are one—and it feels off.