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Responsibility and metamours

What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.

Unethical hierarchies in polyamory

I have been currently investing my time in a polygamous relationship. My partner and I have been talking since February and I would say officially together since March as we are now fluid bonded and consider ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend. I am however his secondary partner and therefore our relationship

Episode 21: Walking on Eggshells

A metamour’s temper has this individual walking on eggshells. Is it because they aren’t doing enough? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. We’re also introducing discussion topics this week. 💡Discussion Topic - What negative character flaws do you fear other people

Episode 18: Monster of a Metamour

You don’t get along with your metamour and what’s more — you think they might be unhealthy for your partner. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen to Episode 18. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple,

What to do with a controlling metamour

I’ve been in a non monogamous relationship with my girlfriend (A) for almost a year now and I have been having some major issues with her other partner (T). It's a long story but I really need some advice on this before I make a decision on

Episode 9: Winning Gold Medals

Are you giving your partner a gold medal for doing something they should be doing anyway? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-9---Winning-Gold-Medals-e1cgben You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or,

Episode 6: Polyam in the Middle

What happens when your kitchen table polyamory attempt goes awry and you’re left with two loves who can’t see eye to eye. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-6-Polyam-in-the-Middle-e1cgbej You should also be able to

Too good to be triad

I’ve been in a relationship for almost nine years, well, not exactly in 2017 we broke up. After the birth of our child life became hell, we had tons and tons of arguments, but the worst part for me at least was that she did not want any more

Episode 1: Thruple Trouble

The first episode of Non-Monogamy Help is now out! Have a listen below. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-1-Thruple-Trouble-e1cgbdu This episode does not have a transcript. Please support this podcast and column Even just $1 a month makes a massive difference, so I’d appreciate your help. In exchange for

How to get a partner to tell the truth

I have a question that has been eating up my insides for close to two years now. I have reason to believe my partner is living as non monogamy but has forgotten or is in complete denial, to actually tell me this. What should I Do? I do not and

Polyamory and needs

Before a month ended my last relationship which was with a solo polyamory person. He has been such for many years while for me this was the first such kind of relationship. I grew up in a family which members have various type of relationships — from strictly monogamous to polygamous