HSV risk and polyamory If you opened your relationship and got diagnosed with HSV, most likely through your partner, how do you move forward.
Requests vs. demands There is a difference between a partner making a request and a demand and you should care less about what polyam influencers think of your agreements.
Safer sex and polyamory Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Avoiding pain and disclosure Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Episode 101: Reconciliation or Retribution Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Episode 89: Mismatched Drives Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem that the rule is designed to prevent.
Episode 88: One Rule to Rule Them All Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem that the rule is designed to prevent.
Episode 86: No Exes as Friends Your new partner demands, during a period of grief, that you stop being friends with an ex and now might not be the best time to push back on the ultimatum.
Episode 74: Dating Friendly In starting out in polyamory, most people want to make rules — like no dating friends or family. It’s worth thinking more about that rule. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What makes a friend different from a partner to you? Listen
Betraying yourself for others My ex and I were together for a year and nine months. He was my first relationship and first sexual encounter. He is fifteen years my senior, and we met when I was eighteen. I didn't know about his actual age, or the fact he had a girlfriend