Episode 133 - Pressure to Open
Coming at a crossroads in your relationship with compatibility can make you feel a pressure to open your relationship, but rethinking that might help.
Topic
Insecurity and needs
How do you manage your own needs with others, boundaries and the feeling that you’re not ‘enough’ for someone? These articles are for people struggling to balance and communicate their needs.
Episode 132 - Mind Reading
If you feel too uncomfortable to ask for what you want from your partner then holding resentment towards them for not meeting your needs may not be fair.
Too Sensitive
A situationship is leading to anxiety and stress -- but is this normal for even the most secure.
Episode 130: Deprioritised
If you know you’re being deprioritised and you just feel you can’t leave, can you actually make it work.
Lacking Confidence
A follow up from a previous letter about how to gain more confidence in relationships.
Episode 125: De-escalating from Polyamory
Is there a way to do polyamory without doing polyamory or de-escalate when you figure out that polyamory is not for you?
Self-Conscious About Experience
It's easy to feel nervous about inexperience but experience isn't always everything within any relationship style.
Episode 124: Reasonable Boundaries
Knowing what boundaries are “reasonable” and which aren’t can be complicated in polyamory, especially when difficult feelings are involved.
Fuzzy Definitions
When your friends with benefits relationship could lead to polyamory but you're not quite sure.
Not Feeling Stable
Is it just insecurity or poor self-esteem or are there reasons for why this person might not feel 100% convinced by their partner's promises?