Not Feeling Stable
Is it just insecurity or poor self-esteem or are there reasons for why this person might not feel 100% convinced by their partner's promises?
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Insecurity and needs
How do you manage your own needs with others, boundaries and the feeling that you’re not ‘enough’ for someone? These articles are for people struggling to balance and communicate their needs.
Episode 113: Slowly Losing Time
You’re slowly and slowly losing the time you have with a metamour and you’re not quite sure how to navigate their boundaries around their time.
Practicing polyamory and borderline personality disorder
Is it possible to practice polyamory when you have borderline personality disorder or abandonment issues?
Anchors are not trust
I am a 28 year old female and I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 3 years. When we met, he was about to move to another country in months, but we still started dating and fell in love with each other very quickly and in a
Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Fighting for control
My partner and I was considering playing solo in the lifestyle, but our first attempt was unsuccessful and left us confused and a bit hurt. We would like to try again on more solid ground, but not knowing where to go from here. Anything you can suggest that would help?
Trapped in guilt
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I've always been fine with 3somes, him sleeping with men, but about a year and a half ago I started advocating for ENM after researching it and realizing I have never wanted to be in a monogamous relationship.
Episode 96: Needing Distance After Dates
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Episode 91: Hierarchies and Ethics
Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem that the rule is designed to prevent.
Episode 90: Breakup News
Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem that the rule is designed to prevent.