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Insecurity and needs

How do you manage your own needs with others, boundaries and the feeling that you’re not ‘enough’ for someone? These articles are for people struggling to balance and communicate their needs.

Episode 68: Mismatched Labels

If your partner is polyamorous but you are non-monogamous is your relationship doomed? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is your ideal polyamory or non-monogamy set-up? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. https:

Managing a triad

My wife and I have been together for 20 years, being married 14 of those years. The last 12 years my wife and I have been in The Swinging lifestyle and in that time you have grown. We have always talked about polyamorous relationship whether it be another couple or

Episode 45: Sex Work and Polyamory

What resources are available for someone who asks about dating a sex worker? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What do you blame your parents for? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. https://anchor.

Gender roles and non-monogamy

I’m in a monogamous relationship and I’ve been in this relationship for 4+ years. We’ve talked about non-monogamy but my partner is quite against it. What makes things worse is I cheated on her last year with a man. We slept together twice before I told her

Age gaps in polyamory

I am a bisexual female and my partner of 2 years is a heterosexual male. I am 28, he is 53. We recently (4 months ago) moved across the country and moved in together. I have never been poly[am] or had an open relationship and don’t see myself

Episode 31: So Uncomfortable

You’re trying polyamory but you’re struggling with discomfort every time your partner shows interest in someone else. Does this mean it’s not for you? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If you were to die this evening with no

Episode 27: Signs of Seriousness

How do you know your relationship is ‘serious’? Is asking about it going to bug your partner too much? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Would you lie to make your partner happy? When does a good lie become a bad lie?

Episode 24: Rules Won’t Save You

Can you make enough rules to prevent your partner from leaving you? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Check out the Patreon for the discussion topic. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic: Which better

Are your needs ‘reasonable’?

My sense is that all triangulation is somewhat dysfunctional, but I’m not sure. For example, if I ask my partner out on a certain night, he can say “Let me check my calendar and get back to you”, or he can say “I want to but my other partner

Can I be replaced?

I have been in a poly relationship for six months now and just recently, my boyfriend started having two other serious relationships. Before that, he just had flings. And I feel so threatened by these other women. I know my bf loves me and he cares a lot about me