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Jealousy and polyamory

How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.

Breakup boundaries

My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it

Episode 94: Clashing Triggers

It triggers you to open the relationship but it triggers your partner to close it. Is there any way to solve it?

Episode 93: Meeting Metamours

Sometimes people are jerks and sometimes experiences help us learn when we can also step away.

Episode 92: Unclear Boundaries

Sometimes people are jerks and sometimes experiences help us learn when we can also step away.

Realistic emotional expectations

This may be way out there, but I'm currently struggling thru the beginning of my partner and I's attempt at non monogamy. We both wanted a hierarchical [polyamory] structure, but I quickly became overwhelmed with jealousy over everything. Because I have been feeling this way, he

Episode 84: Disclosure and Outing

You’re in a not so open minded city. How do you tell people you want to date that you’re currently in a polyamorous or open relationship?

Episode 83: Recycled Dates

What happens when you’re trying non-monogamy for the first time, but you and your partner can’t come to an agreement on things like not going to the same places they’ve taken a metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic:

Emotional sharing in polyamory

My husband and I have been open for a little over a year now. We closed for a period of time because he crossed multiple boundaries. I was the one to bring up being open. My issue right now is my partners unwillingness to really communicate. He claims he’s

Episode 80: Trying to Convince

If you’re trying to convince your partner to be polyamorous, you may not be able to “fix” them wanting monogamy. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Could you see yourself being monogamous? Listen here on or on Anchor. Visit the Anchor

Shunned in a triad

About four months ago, my long-term girlfriend (Z) and I opened our relationship to include her best friend (A). Seemingly everyone was ok with this, nonmonogamy is something I’ve been interested in, but never experienced. Z and A have also been friends for a very long time and have