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Jealousy and polyamory

How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.

Don’t you get jealous?

When I tell people that I am not monogamous or I try to explain polyamory, the first question they tend to ask is, “Don’t you get jealous?” For some people, the thought of their partner being interested in, let alone dating someone else creates so much pain for them

Can I be replaced?

I have been in a poly relationship for six months now and just recently, my boyfriend started having two other serious relationships. Before that, he just had flings. And I feel so threatened by these other women. I know my bf loves me and he cares a lot about me

Episode 16: Just Deal With It

Your partner has told you that they want to sleep with other people and expects you to just deal with it. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use

Episode 14: To Open or Not to Open

Should you end a marriage with kids just because your partner wants to be explore? Or just wait it out? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use our

Episode 11: Long Distance Lament

How do you negotiate more time in a long distance relationship against new relationship energy? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use our RSS feed. https://anchor.

Episode 10: Forced into Polyamory

Your partner wants to open your relationship, but you don’t. And you have kids. What now? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-10---Forced-into-Polyamory-e1cgbfb You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers.

Episode 9: Winning Gold Medals

Are you giving your partner a gold medal for doing something they should be doing anyway? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-9---Winning-Gold-Medals-e1cgben You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or,

Three truths in non-monogamy

I have always been against dating or getting in a relationship. I’m too insecure and weirded out with sex (I hate nudity and vulnerability, it makes me uncomfortable as well as scared about possible sex diseases) and knew deep down that it would make me go crazy like it

The devil’s in the details

About three years ago, I approached my husband with the idea of being non-monogamous. I had several situations pop up where sexual encounters could have happened, but did not due to my loyalty to my marriage. One of them, I kissed someone and then immediately left the situation in horror.

Too good to be triad

I’ve been in a relationship for almost nine years, well, not exactly in 2017 we broke up. After the birth of our child life became hell, we had tons and tons of arguments, but the worst part for me at least was that she did not want any more