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Relationship progression

Now that you have your relationship(s), where does it go from here? How do you deal with marriage or raising a family?

Managing a triad

My wife and I have been together for 20 years, being married 14 of those years. The last 12 years my wife and I have been in The Swinging lifestyle and in that time you have grown. We have always talked about polyamorous relationship whether it be another couple or

When your partner marries another

I and my partner have a non-monogam[ous] relationship for about 1.5 years. I have a question about non-monogamy. 1. Can non-monogamous [people] marry? 2. Do they marry only one of the partners? 3. Do you think that married breaking the rules of nonmonogam[ous] relationship? My partner has

Episode 11: Long Distance Lament

How do you negotiate more time in a long distance relationship against new relationship energy? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use our RSS feed. https://anchor.

Polyfidelity by choice

Almost everything I read is about a couple opening up their primary relationship. There is nothing written about why a third party would enter a relationship. I have fallen heavily for a man who is married and non monogamous. He has fallen heavily for me too. It’s the most

Episode 8: Polyamorous and Pregnant

When a baby’s on the way should you close the relationship if you feel you can’t trust your partner? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely,

Traditional marriage and polyamory

I am in a strange position in my personal life and don’t feel like anybody around me really understands what I’m going through precisely because that would require a deep understanding of non-monogamy, which most people don’t possess. Here’s hoping I’ll find some answers from

Episode 4: Getting Married as a Triad

Can you get married to the two loves of your life at the same time? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-4-Getting-Married-As-a-Triad-e1cgbdv You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely,

Pregnancy and polyamory

We’ve been married for 5, together for 8. Open marriage for about 1.5 years. I’m pregnant (10wks), we also have an almost 3 year old and we have sex frequently but not as much in the last two weeks. Recently my husband has found a connection that

When should you express love?

I’m a twenty something who has only ever been in polyam/non-monog relationships. I’m currently living with a partner who I have been with for a year, who I’ll call Poppy in this email. I have another partner, who I’ll call Lilly, who lives with one

Polyamory after the birth of a new child

I’ve been in a relationship with my current boyfriend — or I should say husband — for a little over three years now. We got married a year ago just before our now one-year-old daughter was born. (Marriage doesn’t have so much meaning to us. It was more for practical