Episode 182 - Permission in Polyamory

Consideration means giving the reins over and allowing emotions to decide whether a partner is allowed to go on a date, which isn't fair.

Partner Wants to Quit Polyamory

An exploration of personal responsibility in polyamory and why taking on the emotional burden for a partner's other relationships can backfire.

Episode 181 - One Penis Policies

Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.

When Your Polyamorous Partner Dates More Than You Do

Struggling when your polyamorous partner dates constantly while you don't? Learn how different dating styles work in non-monogamous relationships.

Episode 180 - From Cheating to Polyamory

Unresolved betrayal needs to be addressed before moving forward into polyamory, or it will easily become a tit-for-tat situation.

Plan Changes in Polyamory

An exploration of why permission-based rules fail during spontaneous plan changes and how to shift from "default time" to intentional scheduling.

Episode 179 - Non-Monogamy and Disability

Partners and friends can help with the admin burden of checking accessibility. That's what mutual aid is all about.

Navigating Non-Monogamy Post Affair

An analysis of whether non-monogamy can be sustainable when it begins through betrayal and why self-compassion is vital when facing a partner’s infidelity.

Episode 178 - Relationship Anarchy for Newbies

Two people could both be relationship anarchists and still not be compatible in terms of what they want or need out of a relationship.