Marriage and Polyamory

An exploration of how to handle a deepening new relationship while engaged and why marriage can be redefined to fit a non-hierarchical life.

Episode 184 - Dating a Co-Worker

Shrinking to make space in a partner's life only suffocates oneself and creates resentment that will eventually become unavoidable.

Resentment in Polyamory

An exploration of why intellectual acceptance cannot fix a basic incompatibility in needs and how to stop rejecting yourself in a relationship.

Episode 183 - Disclosure and Privacy in Polyamory

Sometimes the best way to address fear of missing out is to invite partners to share new experiences, rather than tell them afterwards.

Rebuilding Trust After an Ultimatum

An exploration of the emotional impact of ultimatums and why feeling anxious about sharing needs is a normal response to a history of conflict.

Rebuilding Trust After an Ultimatum

An exploration of the emotional impact of ultimatums and why feeling anxious about sharing needs is a normal response to a history of conflict.

Episode 182 - Permission in Polyamory

Consideration means giving the reins over and allowing emotions to decide whether a partner is allowed to go on a date, which isn't fair.

Partner Wants to Quit Polyamory

An exploration of personal responsibility in polyamory and why taking on the emotional burden for a partner's other relationships can backfire.

Episode 181 - One Penis Policies

When partner anxieties control your behavior, everyone loses. Dive into one penis policies on this week's Non-Monogamy Help episode.