Episode 183 - Disclosure and Privacy in Polyamory

Sometimes the best way to address fear of missing out is to invite partners to share new experiences, rather than tell them afterwards.

Rebuilding Trust After an Ultimatum

An exploration of the emotional impact of ultimatums and why feeling anxious about sharing needs is a normal response to a history of conflict.

Rebuilding Trust After an Ultimatum

An exploration of the emotional impact of ultimatums and why feeling anxious about sharing needs is a normal response to a history of conflict.

Episode 182 - Permission in Polyamory

Consideration means giving the reins over and allowing emotions to decide whether a partner is allowed to go on a date, which isn't fair.

Partner Wants to Quit Polyamory

An exploration of personal responsibility in polyamory and why taking on the emotional burden for a partner's other relationships can backfire.

Episode 181 - One Penis Policies

Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.

When Your Polyamorous Partner Dates More Than You Do

Struggling when your poly partner dates more than you? Learn how to navigate different dating styles in non-monogamous relationships.

Episode 180 - From Cheating to Polyamory

Unresolved betrayal needs to be addressed before moving forward into polyamory, or it will easily become a tit-for-tat situation.

Plan Changes in Polyamory

An exploration of why permission-based rules fail during spontaneous plan changes and how to shift from "default time" to intentional scheduling.