Plan Changes in Polyamory

An exploration of why permission-based rules fail during spontaneous plan changes and how to shift from "default time" to intentional scheduling.

Episode 179 - Non-Monogamy and Disability

Partners and friends can help with the admin burden of checking accessibility. That's what mutual aid is all about.

Navigating Non-Monogamy Post Affair

An analysis of whether non-monogamy can be sustainable when it begins through betrayal and why self-compassion is vital when facing a partner’s infidelity.

Episode 178 - Relationship Anarchy for Newbies

Two people could both be relationship anarchists and still not be compatible in terms of what they want or need out of a relationship.

Managing Jealousy in an Open Relationship

An exploration of the common conflict between jealousy and arousal in open dynamics and why specific approaches to dating can impact success.

Episode 177 - What "Not Serious" Means

It doesn't matter if you don't call your relationship serious. If you act as though it is, your brain will feel like it is anyway.

The "Heads Up" Rule

Learn why "heads up" rules often create more conflict than clarity and how to transition from permission-based agreements to healthy autonomy.

Episode 176 - Deciding on Polyamory

Trying to figure out if polyamory is for you while dealing with new relationship energy can be a significant struggle.

Hierarchy vs Life Partner

This person wants a live-in life partner for major decisions, but their current partner opposes hierarchy and must move to another continent.