Anchors are not trust

I am a 28 year old female and I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 3 years. When we met, he was about to move to another country in months, but we still started dating and fell in love with each other very quickly and in a

Episode 99: Long Distance Jealousy

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Breakup boundaries

My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it

Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Fighting for control

My partner and I was considering playing solo in the lifestyle, but our first attempt was unsuccessful and left us confused and a bit hurt. We would like to try again on more solid ground, but not knowing where to go from here. Anything you can suggest that would help?

Episode 97: When to Say When

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Trapped in guilt

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I've always been fine with 3somes, him sleeping with men, but about a year and a half ago I started advocating for ENM after researching it and realizing I have never wanted to be in a monogamous relationship.

Episode 96: Needing Distance After Dates

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

When to open or close a relationship

My question is how to separate times where we are monogamous and times where we are not? Me and my boyfriend flew right into open relationship, and now I’m have doubts. I think I only want us to be having sexual encounters (no romantic) and I want us to

Episode 95: Secretly Non-Monogamous

If you’re not sure if you’re really non-monogamous or not, how do you label yourself on dating sites to make sure you’re not doing something wrong?