Choosing polyamory to keep a partner

My wife of 19 years and girlfriend for almost eight years before that recently admitted to me that she cheated on me a couple months ago with a long-distance friend of hers who she had gone to visit for two weeks and that they are now in love with each

Episode 102: Clear Communication

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Location trackers in polyamory

I need some serious help with my relationship as my partner has cheated on me twice. We are both women, we met when we were 17 and we’ve been dating for two years now. Both of us agreed from the start to be polyamorous, with the boundary that we

Episode 101: Reconciliation or Retribution

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Accepting your fear

I've been practicing non-monogamy since I first started dating (about 10 years ago), have had one long-term relationship and some shorter ones in that time. I've never really struggled emotionally, above what I would call "just feeling things": moments of jealousy, insecurity, etc. that

Episode 100: Monogamy Is Not A Belief

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Anchors are not trust

I am a 28 year old female and I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 3 years. When we met, he was about to move to another country in months, but we still started dating and fell in love with each other very quickly and in a

Episode 99: Long Distance Jealousy

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Breakup boundaries

My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it

Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?