Accepting your fear

I've been practicing non-monogamy since I first started dating (about 10 years ago), have had one long-term relationship and some shorter ones in that time. I've never really struggled emotionally, above what I would call "just feeling things": moments of jealousy, insecurity, etc. that

Episode 100: Monogamy Is Not A Belief

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Anchors are not trust

I am a 28 year old female and I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 3 years. When we met, he was about to move to another country in months, but we still started dating and fell in love with each other very quickly and in a

Episode 99: Long Distance Jealousy

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Breakup boundaries

My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it

Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Fighting for control

My partner and I was considering playing solo in the lifestyle, but our first attempt was unsuccessful and left us confused and a bit hurt. We would like to try again on more solid ground, but not knowing where to go from here. Anything you can suggest that would help?

Episode 97: When to Say When

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Trapped in guilt

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I've always been fine with 3somes, him sleeping with men, but about a year and a half ago I started advocating for ENM after researching it and realizing I have never wanted to be in a monogamous relationship.

Episode 96: Needing Distance After Dates

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?