Lapsed desire

When my wife and I first started seeing each other, our sex life was great. It was new and exciting, if not slightly more subdued than to what I was normally accustomed. After we moved in together, it seemed like our sex life became far less active than before, and

Episode 52: Anxious After Marriage

Anxiety can often become so overwhelming that you begin thinking non-monogamy just isn't for you. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is your ideal living situation? With or without partners? How would you organise your space? Listen below. You

Episode 51: Conversion Therapy

What happens when you're done with polyamory and want to seek therapy to convert you to a monogamous person? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned from previous relationships? Listen below. You can

Lying by omission

My fiancé who I have been with for 15 years. Has asked if I would be in a open relationship. He says he has always thought this way but what really made him to bring it up was talking to his therapist… and he got a crush on a mutual

With or without permission

Me and my wife we both know each other from 2015 and in September 2019 we got married. Now she’s in Canada and for her studies and I’m in India waiting for this pandemic to be over so that I’ll be able to be with her. Well

Possessive metamour

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years but have been in a BDSM dynamic for four years, we have always had an open BDSM dynamic due to not always having the same kinks but we opened up our relationship sexually a year ago. In that time

Episode 50: What is Love?

What happens when your partner keeps hinting that they want monogamy but you're not even sure if you've ever felt love at all? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If you were to get a job offer in

Torn in a triad

My primary significant other(Girl A) and I have been together for nearly six years now. Two years ago we decided to open up a little bit, and that developed into a triad (Boy A), and he even ended up moving in with us. Roughly one year ago an old

Episode 49: Wanting Monogamy

A partner comes to you asking if you'd consider monogamy and then changes their mind later on, but you're still stuck on wanting it. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is one behaviour

Crushing on a monogamous friend

I am a polyamorous non-binary man in a very happy three-year relationship with a another polyamorous man. This question isn’t about my partner, but rather about a monogamous friend I have named James. I met James about four months ago at a school event and, maybe blame NRE, but