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Episode 43: What If It Ends?

What happens when our biggest fear is losing our current relationship? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: In your worst fears, what might your colleagues at work be criticising you for behind your back? Listen below. You can also find the podcast

Gender roles and non-monogamy

I’m in a monogamous relationship and I’ve been in this relationship for 4+ years. We’ve talked about non-monogamy but my partner is quite against it. What makes things worse is I cheated on her last year with a man. We slept together twice before I told her

Episode 42: The Dreaded Veto

When you’ve conceded to many rules but your partner demands you dump another, what do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What do you most regret so far? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple,

Do gay men have to be non-monogamous?

I’m a gay man (24) and I’ve never been in a serious relationship, and right away I can anticipate that the advice might be I don’t know what I want yet. But I feel really strongly that I do. I’ve thought about this since I started

Episode 41: No Rules Just Wrong

In trying establish rules, does that make you less “ready” for non-monogamy or polyamory? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: List the now guilt inducing occasions when you were especially mean to certain people. Listen below. You can also find the podcast

How to define cheating

Here is my situation. I’ve been with my partner for four months, we started our relationship as another one of mine was ending. I definitely jumped in full force to the relationship, partly because of my heartbreak over the previous one. It turned out to work out really well,

An ex wants to make it right

I was at this relationship that ended badly last night. I only had a few flings after deciding that monogamy wasn’t for me, but I studied a lot, and still do. So I met this guy through some friends in common, he was a non monogamist too, and a

Episode 40: Polyam is Valid

What if you’re struggling to see the relationship you have as valid if they’re married to someone else? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If a really kind person wanted to praise me, they'd say, if a really

Polyamory to save a marriage

My husband and I married July 2018 and had twin boys September 2018. Before that we were dating for 3 years. I recently learned that he has cheated on me while we dated and also behaved in ways that were not appropriate for a boyfriend. I also learned that he

Episode 39: Multiple Escalators

Is it possible to find a “primary” relationship and build it with an already existing close secondary relationship? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If someone likes me a lot, I start to feel… Listen below. You can also find the podcast