Episode 58: Sexual Incompatibility

After more than a decade, your partner wants to open up because he’s not happy, but you think things are going too fast. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: How much detail do you want to know?

Not satisfied with secondary

Not too long ago I met my ideal man, but he has a girlfriend I know he loves very much. But as of our second meet he told me she is asexual and they are trying for a "open" relationship because of his personal need for intimacy and

Episode 57: Begging For Time

You’ve started in a new triad but you’re feeling like the third wheel and no one is spending time with you. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is a gift you’ve been given that’

How to ask for reassurance

Much of the advice I have seen about dealing with jealousy in polyamorous relationships involves telling your partner so that you can communicate about it. When I tell my long term partner I am jealous of him and his girlfriend it makes him very sad, and he begins to avoid

Episode 56: Escalating Past a Metamour

Your partner is escalating your relationship and it’s making your metamour jealous. What can you do? *A metamour is a person who also dates your partner who you do not date. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic: What does an “escalation”

Getting over a partner's sexual history

I am 34 years old, female and since more than 10 years I am in an open relationship with my boyfriend. We follow the concept of a “primary relationship” (so most of our daily life we live like a monogamous couple) but we are free to have external sexual contacts.

Episode 55: How Much is Too Much?

How much is too much to know about your partner’s other relationships? Where is the line? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Do you believe in first impressions? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other

The definition of love

So I’m monogamous one hundred percent I want no one else but my man, he thinks monogamy is not natural, and sex is sex and primal and you can be in a relationship with one person and fuck someone else and that’s ok. Well to me it is

Episode 54: Sacrificing Too Much

When you're trying your best with polyamory but it feels like if you don't get it right, you may get divorced. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Should you sacrifice for your relationship? What is worth sacrificing? Listen

Knowing too much

I am a 40 year old solo poly[am] woman in a relationship with a poly man who is in a long term nesting relationship with his common-law wife. They have been together over 25 years; I’ve been with him for just over 3. I’ve heard you tell