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Episode 27: Signs of Seriousness

How do you know your relationship is ‘serious’? Is asking about it going to bug your partner too much? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Would you lie to make your partner happy? When does a good lie become a bad lie?

Metamour makes all the rules

My partner J and I have been dating almost a year, though due to our schedules/long distance we only hang out 1–2 weekends on average a month. We call and text often. We tell each other we love each other. J has a long-term (several years) nesting partner,

Episode 26: Flirting or Cheating

What if your partner has always flirted in a way you define is cheating and now they want to be non-monogamous? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic - True or False: “I know how to stand up for myself”. Listen below. You

Polyamory as a treatment for infidelity

I’m 33 and I live with my girlfriend who is 28. We met 3 years ago while she still had a boyfriend. A that time I was physically attracted to her (she is very beautiful) but as I knew she had a boyfriend I did not approach her. However,

Episode 25: First Time Jitters

If your first foray into non-monogamy is cheating — but it’s not sexual — are you doomed? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic - If you had a memoir,

Energy for everyone but you

What I’m struggling with is that my partner has very little energy and is anti-social with PTSD attached. Because of this, I am the primary caretaker of our daughter and I also tend my partners daily needs. I become insecure when my partner manages to muster the energy to

Episode 24: Rules Won’t Save You

Can you make enough rules to prevent your partner from leaving you? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Check out the Patreon for the discussion topic. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic: Which better

Are your needs ‘reasonable’?

My sense is that all triangulation is somewhat dysfunctional, but I’m not sure. For example, if I ask my partner out on a certain night, he can say “Let me check my calendar and get back to you”, or he can say “I want to but my other partner

Episode 23: Abusive Metamours

What happens when you feel pressured to associate with an abusive metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. We’re also introducing discussion topics this week. 💡Discussion Topic: What slightly unhealthy things feel attractive in a partner? How might this relate to your relationships

Unethical hierarchies in polyamory

I have been currently investing my time in a polygamous relationship. My partner and I have been talking since February and I would say officially together since March as we are now fluid bonded and consider ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend. I am however his secondary partner and therefore our relationship